Does it piss you off?

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When people call everything rape. My husband for example if i rub his back when hes not in the mood hell be like get off your raping me😯I actually was raped at 8 by a family member and abused the majority of my life mainly physically two instances sexually the rape and once molestation. It really annoys me when he does this!

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It may be worth telling him that you're sensitive to the word. If he continues to use it that's a no-no.

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I once had a "friend"'who cried rape all the time. If a guy honked at her, she was "almost raped". When a perve tried to look up her skirt, she was "almost raped."
When she traded blow jobs for rides to work, she was "almost raped".
It's disgusting. People don't realize how serious it really is and you can't just throw that word around.

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It's super offensive to me as well! Especially when in the form of a joke. I was also raped by a family member when I was around 4 and although I try not to let it define me, it really grates on my nerves.

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Talk to him about it. He probably doesn't realize the effect it has on you.

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Does he know you were raped? Sometimes people throw it around without using common sense. You should talk to him about it.

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I haven't ever been raped. I've been touched and I don't know what that fall into but if you are bother by your husband sayin this then y not tell him? U don't have to yell or argue u can still be nice just let him kno u r sensitive to the word rape since u were actually raped. The word brim thrown around bothers u n that's what I'd tell him if it was me.

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If he's trying to be cute, let him know it isn't cute.

If he is trying to avoid your advances, let him know that you would respect a simple 'no.'

But spousal rape/assault is a real thing. If you aren't respecting boundaries, you should probably reconsider your actions.

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Do you tell him it annoys you and do he know your situation?

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Yeah, it's a serious word and shouldn't be thrown around. "I'm going to rape this exam", "work was so busy today I was ass raped the whole time" blah blah blah. I hate it. Seems to me it's a product of rape culture and the fact that people don't take rape as seriously as they should.

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If it annoys you, tell him!!!!!!!!

Does it piss you off?

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