frustrated. angry. sad. thought husband wanted to try but he doesn't want sex often and when he's sort of in the mood, it's never around ovulation time nor does the actual sex act last longer than a minute :( we met and got married late in life. i am 42 and he's 40. neither one of us have kids. i had an abortion in my early 20s. the guy was an asshole and told me if i had the child i would be ruining not 2 lives, but 3. had a lot of therapy to work through things. but still feeling a lot of regret, like it might have been my only chance :( trying to be okay with it but having a hard time.