Burning and pain during sex

ive been experiencing pain during sex, especially when my husband trys to put it in. It feels like the bottom on my vag has been ripped open. I also have burning after sex and then itching throughout the day on the "lips" of my vagina. Is this normal? Its effecting my relationship i feel like but myhusband  says its fine... Could it be because we never use condoms? We dont use lube normally, just our own saliva and im on junel fe 30 mg pill ans ever since i started it my sex drives been down and my wetness is no where close to what it used to be