EX wife 😬😬😬

My husbands ex wife has caused so much drama since we have gotten married in October it's ridiculous. She has called police, lied, taken the kids everything and for six months done everything to keep them away. Him and I have often talked about his feelings before this incident and still in order to identify and help him heal I give advise and listen, since my past situation was similar. Now in the midst of this I have been called her name several times during conversation and today during an argument. I am tired of the bitch to be honest and please forgive me I'm everything but a good person right now. I'm sick of the BS and I know he's going through a lot but sometimes I feel he takes it out on me, cursing me out because I didn't not feel well (AF is killing me this month) picking a fight for no reason! What do you think!!???