My Obgyn office has us rotate doctors so we are comfortable with all of them.  My "normal" one told me he doesn't see me as geriatric even though I am 35, since I've had a child and I do not have any other things to be worried about.  Today I see a different one and he starts pushing genetic testing when the other promised he wouldn't bring it up again.  Today's said well you are at the border age, bordering a weight concern, and bordering a blood pressure concern.  I'm fairly stressed when I go because my last four pregnancies ended in miscarriage, so this just added the frosting on the cake.  I've worked with disabilities all my life and know my risks.  In the end I agreed to seeing a maternal medicine Doctor, whom has done testing on me bc of the miscarriages, to follow up as a high risk pregnancy.  They will do frequent high end ultra sounds to look for abnormalities and echocardiogram to monitor heart issues.  Now I'm freaking out after my normal/regular doctor just said to relax and things look great because we have already had multiple ultrasounds.  Anyone else have this happen? It's not like we all don't worry about having healthy babies and I know he means well, but when I say I'm highly educated on what can happen and also what is required to support individuals with disabilities why keep pushing it?