sex for the first time advice!!😅

priscilla •
so I'm 16 and a virgin and my hymen isn't even broken and I'm kind of nervous to have sex because I'm afraid that when me and my bf do have sex, when he breaks my hymen I will bleed and freak him out and it will hurt really bad so is it normal to bleed when you have sex for the first time? does it really hurt as bad as everyone says it does? please help! 😅💘