Ladies, I either need a friendly slap out of my hormones or some solid justification of them. Last weekend, I got "self-diagnosed" food poisoning. I had eaten out and throughout the night I was in the bathroom feeling sick. Nothing much going on but I just didn't feel well. On my way to work in the morning, I still didn't feel right and (TMI WARNING) threw up all over myself! (It was in a bag... That had a hole in it 😒😪). Called in sick at work, went back home. Took me about 24 hours to feel better, so Saturday and Sunday were better for me... But my baby on the other hand, little missy had slowed down by a lot. I had been feeling her pretty regularly in the weeks passed (first kick at 15 weeks, they got more regular around 18). So last weekend I was 21 weeks, meaning for 3 weeks, I had come to learn this kid's movements. Concerned about how weak she was seeming, I tried not to stress it since we had a doctors appointment coming up on Wednesday (yesterday). Heart rate 160. Doc said it sounds good and the weakness could be her recooperating as well. He also said if something were wrong, there's not much that can be done at this point. NOW... I'm expressing to my husband that I'm still concerned about the baby because she just hasn't perked back up. His response: "maybe it wasn't kicks you were feeling before but just gas... And didn't the doctor say it was fine?" Hint: the tone in his voice=condescending. Am I allowed to be irritated with him? I'm expressing concern for getting my kid sick and he's not worried one bit. I feel like he's downplaying my concern. But I'm not sure if I'm just being hormonal.