Natural at home birth

So I'm confused. Every time I tell someone I'm having my baby at home I get grief. Is it that bad of an experience. And what was fhs pain like. I love how personal and calm it can be at home. And my midwife is great! I also dont have the father involved. So this has been hard. Alot of people will be here for support. I want my two besties and my mom and my two aunts. They both had a at home birth with this midwife. Im i wrong for this?? FTM.