First time; any advice??

Question

There's this thing about me being scared of having sex. I'm not scared of the actual sex itself  just what it can lead to.   
   (Terrified of pregnancy) 
and I can't take birth control, cant swallow pills, and cant remember to take something kinda unnecessary everyday. Thinking about an implant but my parents keep going around it everytime I bring it up.

BUT if I stop being so damn scared I will use a condom.
Advice please??

(Don't give me this "too young"mess, I'm not...)

Answer

Get the implant in your arm. Dont make excuses for not taking bc. There are several types of bc. So if ur scared of getting pregnant prevent it.

Answer

Implant or the shot. I thought I would never remember to take the pill, but I set an alarm. They are so tiny you don't even notice you're swallowing them. There is also the patch. Honestly I feel like condoms are always the best option, birth control isn't 100% but niether is a condom(they do break). I'm not sure about the implant and its success rate, but I've read that it is fewer than 1 out of 100 so great odds.
I've been looking into birth control again(I've been off for five year and am currently expecting, but I'm a lot older) I personally cannot see myself getting the implant because it's a needle in the arm. Then when you want to take it out the have to cut the area open to take it out. I'm sure there's no scar but I hate needles and cutting me open just no... 
I started having sex at 15 with the man who is now my husband. We always used a condom and I was on birth control for the first 8 years of our relationship. When I was 23 I couldn't take the imbalance I felt every month from hormones so we just used condoms until we started trying for a baby. I didn't get pregnant for almost three years with just condoms. However we did have some scares.

Answer

Just do what feels right for you an be careful. I am happy that you are not wanting to get pregnant, but never let anything stop you from doing what's right for your body. If you want the implant then get it. I'm not sure of the rules, but I didn't need my moms consent at 16/17 when I changed doctors and was no longer living with her. If you need consent then put it this way to your parents( as long as you are open already and they aren't in denial for the purposes of getting it) would they rather you use birth control, or need to go get plan B, which does not require consent from a parent and can be bought at a pharmacy.
I'm not condoning plan b, I personally wouldn't take it because it's already effective if you have already conceived and for me the moment the sperm gets with the egg it is a baby... But I know some people have no other option.

I know lengthy and I apologize, but good luck!

First time; any advice??

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