Husband not in the mood?! Ovulation week

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So my husband and I have been TTC for about 7mo, It seems like everytime I mention it's an important week/day whatever he isn't getting aroused. He says it adds stress and makes him nervous or he just isn't in the mood or tired. I've asked him constantly what the issue is and he says "I don't know" anyone having the same issues?

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Stop giving him the details every damn day and just bang the man.

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My husband has the same issue this month. Everything was going smoothly but then the second I got a positive opk he couldn't focus and just freaked himself out. He said he Feels like the pressure is all on him . So from now on I'm not gonna tell him when I get a positive test or when my most fertile days are. It's seems to be a mood killer and just puts too much stress on sex.

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Maybe you shouldn't tell him when it's time. Just have sex naturally when you both want to. It sounds stressful to be expected to have sex on a schedule.

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Same with my husband. He finally told me that he was feeling so much pressure to preform that he couldn't and said to not tell him when I was ovulating and just initiate sex with him.

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It's hard to be aroused when you're stressed out. Instead of saying you have to have sex right then because you're ovulating just have sex with him. I know you want to have a baby but don't let that be the only reason you have sex. It should still be fun and enjoyable. Conceiving is stressful for everyone involved but trust that as upset as you get, he's right there with. He wants it too, he just can't perform with that kind of pressure.

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Some things men just don't need to know.  And ovulation time is one of them!

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Its all the added stress. Make sure you're being mindful of how it's making him feel as well.

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Well it sounds like the issue is, that it's just plain too much pressure for him. Instead why don't you for the next say couple months, get some sexy thing to wear. Maybe some massage oil...spread it out don't use it all in one night. But stock up on different sexy things that will draw his attention. Don't say he it's ovulation time Stan, bedroom now! Lol

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I took all of your advice and it worked like a charm. Tonight I went upstairs put on some lingerie, put the light on dim and texted him to come upstairs. He was ready to go! Thanks everyone!
I know it's a lot of pressure, I guess I just get so worked up because I don't want to miss my ovulation period.

Husband not in the mood?! Ovulation week

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