Yes I miscarried...

Melody
I am for sure miscarrying... This was my first pregnancy and I don't know how to deal with this loss... If it didn't hurt so damned much -cramping- I may be able to deal with it better...
Can you girls help me with this? I am a wreck. 
I wish I had heeded the warnings... My tests got lighter for a few days before they got darker... I should have known what was happening... I asked a lot about it and for the most part you were all so nice and optimistic with me... Thank you to those of you who tried to help...