She has a greater sex drive than him

Do you ever feel like the 'man' when it comes to sex.  My sex drive is greater than my husbands and I can't sleep due to being so horny. I contemplate on waking him up by making him hard so I can mount him.  But I fight that urge most nights and we end up having sex only once or twice a week but I want more. I want to have sex at least once a night. I haven't told my husband this. I am afraid he'll think I'm insane and think something is wrong with me. I feel so ashamed.