He is busy busting his butt day and night to work his way into the federal penitentiary or state troopers. Works alternating first and third shifts and is always looking for more overtime. I work a minimum wage job 30 hours a week and am building my own business which varies week to week on hours but averages no less than 30 a week also. Some weeks we don't see each other for four or five days with the overlaps. I keep telling him it'll be worth it in the end when I have my business going strong and he's in his desired position. We're both very head strong so we can argue a bit, but when push comes to shove he's the one I want pushing me into a pool 😜 don't mind the dog toys everywhere. Belle , the white dog, has a severe issue with having them in the basket.