People kill me...

Does it amaze you how blunt people are when asking "when are y'all going to have kids?" My husband and I have been married nearly 4 years and will both turn 30 this year. We get this from his family, people at church and coworkers constantly. I would NEVER ask this. You never know if they've been trying and are unable to have kids. We haven't been preventing for the past three years. Or worse, if they've had miscarriages. It just amazes me how nosey and blunt people are.