Everyone feels the need to give me their opinion..

Emmilia
I'm 30 weeks pregnant and my family feels the need to give me their opinion on how I want to parent. I keep saying there is no right or wrong way it's what works for my fiancé and I. Am I wrong for asking them to keep it to themselves? I get it they are only trying to help but why is it so hard to let me figure it out and if I need help I won't hesitate to ask. Everything I want to do my mom tells me is wrong and is going to make me a bad parent. I don't see anything wrong with my decisions and neither do other people. It's like she just wants it her way. Today, a family
Member got an attitude because I didn't register for a bassinet and it makes me a bad parent to let them sleep in the crib as a newborn. My ob said it was fine!! My mom told me buying a chair for the nursery was the stupidest thing she's ever heard because "you'll never even sit in it" . It's really stressing me out the way everyone is making me feel . I'm an adult I just want to figure this out for myself.. But when I say something I'm being stubborn and need to take their advice.. How do I politely tell them I get where they are coming from but my fiancé and I want to figure out what works and doesn't work for us? Sigh.. Lol