Advice on TTC?

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Me and my SO have been TTC for over a year now and we're both getting a bit frustrated and trying to be patient. We tried preseed but hubby doesn't like lube and he says he doesn't want "help" some pride thing I guess. I used OPKs for about 7 months but I stopped because it was stressing me out too much. I guess I need some advice on how to relax and just enjoy the adventure of TTC.