So, this year will be 8 years of my husband and I TTC. We got married 8 years ago and wanted to start trying right away.. After about 3 years, we decided to give up.. If we couldn't get pregnant on our own, it just wasn't meant to be. After about a year, we picked back up on the seriously trying part.. Here's the thing, I haven't been to the ob/gyn in about 6 years.. I am overweight and have a lot of iffy feelings about going to the "girl doctor" because I don't want them harping on me like last time about being overweight and that I HAD to lose weight before I even thought about getting pregnant. So that kind of scared/aggravated me and made me not want to go. If I were to actually make the appointment, is there anything that they would actually HELP me with? Or would it be just a "check everything out and tell me I need to lose weight" situation again?