Hello! I'm new here, as we just found out we are expecting after almost a year of trying. My doctor will get my blood test results back Monday and give me a better idea of due date; right now some things say I'm 6 weeks and some say 4...we plan to tell our families next weekend, at Mother's Day (we did this with our first)...but how to tell the big brother? We figured he'd figure it out next weekend when everyone freaks, but haven't decided what to do...