Diva cup 😁

I just started using the Diva Cup (this is my first day using it) and I'm a little disappointed. I wanted to have this amazing experience with it like I've been reading what everyone else's experience was like and it kinda just sucks :( first of all its kinda uncomfortable putting it in. I think maybe it's too big? I got model 2 because I've had 2 children but it just seems a little too big. Second it's pretty messy and time consuming to change it. Third it leaks a bit. Like when j wipe after I pee there's a little blood on the tissue but never on my panties. Fourth it hurts like a bitch to take out. I don't think it unsuctions until it's almost out lol. I don't feel it in me so I'm pretty sure it's in right. I like the way it feels and I REALLY want to fall in love with this product but it just seems difficult :( any tips ladies??