Sexy confidence

So I know sex is suppose to be fun, but I read only lost my virginity and it wasn't. I wasn't really wet and we started off too quick. I was just waiting for him to cum so he'd stop. It didn't really hurt just felt odd. I did bleed but nothing major. I wasn't sore afterwards either. I just want to be able to please my boo after making him wait. I need advice ladies. How to ride, what to do when he's on top, how to really get him going. Please help lol (I'm 20 lol) my friends have this app as well and I've not told them about me and my boyfriend a few weeks ago lol..