I need help! I was gonna have a baby shower in a backyard but I've been thinking and it's gonna be way to hot in August for one and with the bugs and my godmothers backyard isnt that big for the amount of people that may goi feel bad telling her we aren't gonna have it there anymore...... and is there music played in a baby shower I don't want it to be like this big party thing just something that's relaxing for me and everyone else but I don't want it to be boring I am gonna have games...... idk if I'm over thinking this whole thing or not but please I need some.insight on this....... our family's are.so different so I want it be comfortable for everyone......