So I am 24 have a 14 year old stepdaughter have raised her full time since I was 19 she was 9 I try my best to be a good mom to her cause her mom has never been in the picture at all but we clash and she has no respect for me she lies has sex does drugs and gets bad grades and I let her dad know everything and he doesn't do anything about it her room is disgusting and her bathroom. She is 14 almost 15 and can't even take a pizza out of the oven she acts nice to my face then texts me and is rude and she knows how to manipulate her dad into Everything it's so frustrating for me cause I try talking to her dad but he just blows it off I do care about my step daughter and I do love her but I don't know what to do anymore any advice from anyone please??