Can't sleep. Need to rant!

My in laws have officially hurt me for the last time... Since my husband and I got together all I've ever done is force my husband to still see his family even though he can't stand them! All I've ever done is tell my husband I will support him regardless of any decisions he makes! I have been the best most supportive wife I could be! I also have done everything I can to try to make them like me. Well apparently that isn't good enough! My husband was gone for a month for a training excercise and his mother asked me on multiple occasions if I was cheating on him because I didn't answer the first time she called (I was with my best friend which is my husbands best friends wife!)! She also told me "You better get him in check and make sure he does HWY patrol! I can't take another year without my baby here!" Well my husband is now home and decided to reenlist instead of go home and do highway patrol! His #1 reason was he wants to change his job and see how he likes it for another term (he's military). #2 he wants me to get my degree before he gets out, so we won't struggle when he's trying to figure everything out in the civilian world!