My brothers got this wife who really doesn't understand that kids need to live off something besides soda and cereal. I watch my nephew sometimes and have started trying to push him to eat healthy stuff that I try to push on my own kids. He's only 5 and is sweet but he's constipated every time he comes over and he's got a gut now. He's not really fat so I'm thinking he's just really clogged. He says he doesn't hurt but feels sick a lot. Uh, yeah! Makes sense!!

Now I dun want to judge my SIL but she isn't lazy. She's actually pretty fine and works out every day for hours. I feel like you could be figuring out your kids probs before worrying about putting off the baby weight that's been gone for 2 years! My brother doesn't seem to care and gets mad when I tell him about what's going on with his kid and tells me to bud out. So once a week I'm trying to get him to eat as much greens and fiber as possible, which he doesn't like but I enforce a take it or go hungry rule in my house. I'm not mom of the year but none of my kids are so backed up they don't even want to play.

Should I feel bad? I hate lying to my brother but this is just neglectful to me.