What don't you like your bf doing?🙅🏼

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When in a relationship what isn't okay? (Not saying I don't like any of this just wondering people's thoughts) 
What out of those would you not like your boyfriend to do when in a relationship with you.

-Send girls friend request on Facebook 
-Go strip clubs 
-Message random girls just to be friends 
-Watch porn 
-Like girls photos 
-say if another girl is hot

And is there anything else that you would expect a guy to do when you start dating them.

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I don't like my boyfriend farting in the fan cause the fan is always pointed in my direction.

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don't eat all my fucking food if I bought it

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Don't do anything that would be disrespectful to me in the relationship. He's an adult, he can use his judgement on what that is.

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Are you seriously making a list for your boyfriend of things he can't do?! You aren't his mother.

Instead of making a ridiculous list, why not be with someone who has the same values?! No list necessary

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My general rule of thumb is don't do anything you wouldn't want me to. If my man doesn't care about what I do and does things I don't like, he's not worth the time.

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To me, I expect to be respected and have the relationship respected. That means something different for everyone, of course, but personally, I don't like strip clubs (except if it's fora bachelor party I'll let it slide), but I don't see anything wrong with porn as long as it isn't an addiction and doesn't interfere with our sex life. I don't expect him to have zero female friends, but "friending" random girls in Facebook would be a no. I don't mind him admitting other women are attractive, but it needs to be done respectfully (both of her and of me). I don't want to hear what a great as some girl has or that my friend is hot - it's fine if he thinks it but not everything you think needs to be spoken. If it comes up in a natural way in conversation though and he remarks that another woman is attractive, im that doesn't really bother me.

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I don't police him but some of the things you listed just aren't something a respectable responsible man does. I'm fine with him noticing beautiful women, find being friends with women but he displays the appropriate boundaries and quite frankly we are older so the need to fo some of those things isn't an issue

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None of these bother me. I'm very secure in my relationship. My boyfriend has a lot of friends. We make new friends every week! This list is exhausting. Keeping track of what my boyfriend is doing would be a full time job! And if I'm gonna work from home, that's not what I wanna do lol

What I don't let him do: Eat sunflower seeds. That shit is nasty

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I've never felt the need to have a list... Instead I just chose to be with someone who would never disrespect me in any way. It makes life much simpler.

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The only thing I don't like my bf doing is drinking. My bf is a lightweight so it doesn't take much for him to get drunk or even a little tipsy and when he is he gets mad and starts yelling at me cause he has very bad anger issues so after last time he said he's done drinking

What don't you like your bf doing?🙅🏼

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