Well I'm 24 weeks my husband planned on haveing our baby shower next month but somethings have happens financially so now I'm not to sure if I want to have it now cause I'm scared that if I do we will get farther behind then we r now but it don't want to not have one cause I feel like everyone would be let down and I would be so depressed but then again my husband gets so stressed out over our financials that he gets depressed and sleeps all the time so I feel lonely. It's so hard to know what I should do because I don't have family who really care to help me out I mean I thought that my mother was supposed to pay for it or help I mean all the ppl iv known to have a baby shower their mothers have payed for it so I feel like that's the normal thing to do but my mom Dosent seem to care abut it but yet she seems excited about me haveing a child. Iv tryed to talk to her about it it but she says oh I'm sorry that sucks at that's about it she didn't seem to care and it hurts so bad. Well so idk what to do should I just let our selfs get behind and have the shower or not do it? Either way I feel like it would make things worse than that already are... Also ontop of all that we have nothing for our baby I have 3outfits :( I feel like I'm not good enough to be a mom but I love our baby so much and I wouldn't change anything for the world...