So frustrated with hubs

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It's like he knows to pick a fight when I'm ovulating!  He says he wants a baby but he never wants to know anything my cycle. He says that if I tell him then he feels pressure to perform. Ok, I get that. So I don't tell him and just try to do the BD with him, but something always comes up. He gets an attitude or is tired. It's like he knows!  And honestly I just can't do it alone anymore bi plan on having a serious talk with him tonight about everything. I got a positive OPK yesterday and had the correct mucus and everything. But nope, no BD'ing for us. Any one go through something similar with their hubbys?