What y'all think?

So I have a friend for of over 5 years. Me and him always been into each other but have never got the chance to pursue a relationship for many reasons. We have a very open friendship, he's like a bestfriend but he always has told me that he loves me. One of the mayor reasons why we never went to te next level is that is super shy in person and doesn't like to express himself the same way he does on the phone. I have told him this before but that just the way he is. Over the years we have dated other people but always for some reason, we end up talking again. This time around he got his girl pregnant and now he's referring it and wants to be with me. Which will never happen in my book. The issue I have is that he says he loves me and her at the same time. Which it's really hard for me to believe. Do y'all believe you can love two people at the same times? I just think he wants new pussy😂 because he is always begging for us to have sex.