So. I've been talking to this guy. And things have been great. We just recently started having sex. And it's been great! He's phenomenal in bed. But. I kind of noticed he just avoided oral on me. I gave him A LOT of head. And so earlier we were talking. And I decided to ask him about it. And he says he doesn't, that he only did with one girl and that was because she lost her virginity to him. Then asked if that's something I wanted. And I told him if he wasn't comfortable that I wasn't going to push him. That I don't want us doing anything that makes us uncomfortable. But. Then he says, I'll do it on you. You just gotta take a shower right before we do anything. Like??? I feel like he was basically telling me my vagina is gross. And it just hurt my feelings. Opinions?