Breaking point

Ok! Where i live its gonna be close to 90 today rn its 65 out. I get my step kids dressed every morning depending on the weather.

Well my stepson tried to leave with a winter sweater ( one with like fake fur ) so i told my bf to tell him hes not gonna need it its gonna be warm out hell be hot and the bus doesnt have ac. And my bf texts me back

"Omg... your so worried about it "

I go its gonna be close to 90 and its literally almost 70 at 9 am. They wait in sunroom bus pulls up goes on bus school is always hot they told me. So i think a short sleeve shirt is fine

And he goes " ur at ur breaking point cause i said they can wear hoodies if there cold u neee to fucking stop " when literally all i said was ugh ok whatever. There little they dont understand body temp whats hot or cold or weather ya no? Example i can say oh its gonna be 95 today they go that's cold. Or its gonna be -10 out thats it i want it to be-50. So u see what i.mean. i know how to dress them when things are needed. And hes the type to like let them do what they want it just erks me cause if i say something hell be a douche.

Advice ?

no bashing PLEASE