Hey everyone, I am 24 y/o and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years. Lately, I have been feeling jealous of a certain girl that is friends with my boyfriend, even though I know that I can trust my boyfriend and that the girl does not have any romantic interests towards my him. I am generally a rational person, and we talked about these feelings that I am having. But everytime I see them together, there would be an immediate pang in my heart that I could bug me for hours. I know that jealousy comes from the fear of losing someone, and that what makes you feel jealous often reveals your deepest insecurities and desires. I know that I should accept the fact that my boyfriend have female friends, but I often cannot help but feel "territorial" everytime I see him around other attractive female. I am ashamed of having these feelings and my boyfriend does not know what else to say that could help make me feel better.