Just a vent, H E L P !

I know every relationship is different and we all believe in different things. With that being said I've been seeing this guy for a while now and he thinks In a relationship you should see each other once a month and text sometimes but not all day, everyday. His reasoning is he doesnt want to get bored of whoever he is with because that happened with one of his longest relationships. Me on the other hand, I'm not clingy at all but I like communication throughout the day or we should see each other about twice a week. I'm not going to lie in previous relationships I have wandered off because I wasn't getting the attention I wanted and I have told him that . I said you can either take the risk of being bored or me wandering off somewhere else ... Am I wrong? I like him I really do but he also expressed to me how EVERY last one of his relationships have ended because they found someone else or cheated...his most recent went back to her ex and got pregnant.. They also hung out once a month., So what does that tell you???? 
I need thoughts and opinions...I don't want to give up but geesh. He is so stuck on his ways. You have to compromise and if it's worth it , put it on the line and see what happens.