Ever had a FWB? (Friend with benefits)

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I'm currently with this guy who can be described as my FWB. We have sex whenever but we're not together and no one (not even our mutual friends) knows about it. Its my first time getting into something like this since we both just got out of a serious relationship.  I guess im not sure what to expect. Im scared i might start catching feelings for him. Any FWB stories ... what happened in the end and does it always end badly??

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Mine ended very badly. We were super close and now we don't even talk. We would have sex every day for about 2 years...it was great while it lasted. But I always wanted more. I fell for him and he didn't feel the same way

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Yes and you shouldn't be in a friends with benefits relationship if you think that you will catch feelings . A fwb relationship is just straight up sex and nothing else . No feelings attached . If you end up catching feelings he may not have the same ones for you and you will end up bitter jealous and most of all heartbroken . Especially since he has the right to text and see and do things with whatever girl he wants to and you can't really say shit because your not his gf your just a fuck buddy . It might also make the friendship awkward and not the same anymore . But there's always the chance that none of these things will happen but do you really wanna take the chance at that .? It's your choice . Take the blue pill or the red pill lol 💊

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I had a FWB and didnt know it til he "exposed" me . He made it seem like we were in a relationship & had me on this emotional roller-coaster to hell to the point i tried to kill myself. He talked to other girls in my face, behind my back, and even got chlamydia (we didnt have sex) . But we buried whatever problems we have with each other. But yeah, off topic. I wouldnt suggest having a FWB.

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My boyfriend of 9 months now started out as my FWB. So no. It doesn't always have to end badley

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I lost my virginity to my FWB. We became really good friends and neither of us had problems with catching feelings. It's important to remind yourself that the relationship is just sex and friendship and nothing else. We are still friends but I moved away so we can't really sleep together but we would definitely still hook up if we could.

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Me and my fwb lost our virginities to eachother a few moments ago and we're just friends in public. It's like nothing ever happened.

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My husband and I started out as FWB and we caught feelings and I was tired of being used for sex. I proposed BF/gf relationship and he said yes. Then a few years later, we got married and have 2 beautiful kids after 8years or marriage. And going strong.

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well, i have a few fwb and it's not that bad. With one of them we stopped the whole thing like 2 weeks ago cause he met a girl, but no hard feeling you know and now we're like close friends. We shared intimacy so we don't have a problem talking about anything. I've never had a fwb that ended things badly.

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my friends with benefits is now my boyfriend. I'm not saying that it always ends up like that, because it mostly doesn't.... but sometimes things work out well.

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I had a situation where it ended bad, he asked me out after a couple months of hooking up, and then ended up still obsessed with his ex fiancé, and I had gotten very emotionally attached, though I dohave a tendency to get very attached to people.