How would you feel?

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Ladies, how would you feel if you found out that your ex boyfriend (broken up for a month) was on Match.com, Tagged, POF, and UberHorney.com searching for random hookups, threesomes, & etc...

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Uberhorney?!?!? Yeah I'd be glad he's my ex

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Id be glad he's an ex.

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If he is your ex then why do you care?

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Don't worry about it he's your X!! Move on 👍

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He's an ex don't worry about. Only thing I would do would be an STD test because that shows his personality and he could have done that type of thing before or while you were together.

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If I weren't moving on as quickly as he was, I'd probably be hurt. Unfortunately there's really nothing to do about it. You're broken up and he can do as he pleases.

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I think it's only natural to feel hurt - you don't want to see him "move on" that fast, especially when you're still grieving the end of the relationship. But here's the thing - it's doubtful he actually HAS moved on. These sites are his coping mechanism. He's using them to prove to himself that he's desirable and attractive and to convince himself he's over it. But just because he's chatting (or even meeting) other girls doesn't necessarily mean he's over you already.

I had a particularly bad ex who I was absolutely head over heels for. Like, stupidly so. But he wasn't great to me and so is break up with him and immediately sign up for a dating site. If chat with guys and go on dates bc I was TRYING to convince myself I'd moved on, trying to not look like I cared. But in the end I was still super hung up on my ex. I could never bring myself to have a relationship with the "new" guy bc all I could think about was my ex. Then I'd go back to the ex, rinse and repeat, until one day I was ACTUALLY over him. But me going on dating sites and going on dates was actually a sign that I WASNT over him. When we broke up and I actually was over him, I didn't go to any dating sites or any of that. I knew I was over it and didn't need dates to prove it.

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I always jump online afyer a breakup. Doesn't mean my heart is in it but it's nice afyer a breakup to feel desired and busy.

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