Nexplanon vs. the patch?!

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UGH 😭😭😭 I've been wanting the implant for so long but chickened out before my appointment and got the patch instead. I am so scared of having a lot of bleeding (some women say they bleed for weeks/months at a time) and I also hate being irregular BUT the implant is SOOO effective and safe and the patch really worries me. Any words of advice? Please help me. I AM sexually active and I need the best protection I can get :/