Mil is driving me crazy. She has done nothing but cause problems for my husband since I've known him going so far as to keep calling social services until our son was placed with her and after all the problems she caused he ended up with my husband's ex shortly and all together we saw him less than once a week for 6 months and he was abused in the ex's care. Trying to be the better people and not rip anyone from our child's life after my husband got some custody we have tried to play nice and work things out. She has implied I cheated while my husband was out of town and makes it clear she dosent like me. It's obvious she blames me for my husband getting our son back and her not raising him. Idc about her opinion but she really hurts my husband who was always really close to his mom till highschool when he decided to live his own life regardless of her opinion. Things have been good for months but we let my sons biological maternal grandparents see our son who is almost 3 and our 1 1/2 year old has started asking to go and gets upset staying behind. My husband and I agree that when she's a bit older that she should be able to go and they agree too. We don't want her feeling unloved or left out especially since they are the only family he has contact with that she dosent share by blood. My husband's mom has been flat out mean the past few days to him because she said it hurts her that we would let our daughter go that they are her grandparents not them and it's disrespectful. She has called my husband names and says he is ignorant for not taking her opinion into account. He let her know her place and was angry but was as respectful as possible but I can tell hes hurting from her actions. My mil even want so far as to call back just to say we sent welcome at their house and she won't be comming to ours but still plans to have my fil pick up the kids every weekend as usual. She talks bad about the other grandparents in front of my son and I have no doubt she would trash us so I told my husband the kids won't be going as often and they will have to come visit the kids here for a while if they want to see them do to their past actions when angry. I wish he would cut them out but they are his only family besides his sister he dosent talk to and idk how to bring it up that they are toxic!