Me and my husband have not used contraception in 5 years. We have been to the doctor and had all the tests and been told his swimmers are a little bit slow and basically i am too fat what do you want us to do? Which really pissed me off.

One of his parents recently passed away so I have not mentioned baby talk, he talked about how sad he was because his parent wouldnt meet his kids but met his sister etc.

One minute he really wants kids the next minute he doesnt. This isnt a recent thing its been going on for months.

yesterday we had sex and out of habit i logged it and it said it was the most ferrilr so i jokingly said look it says i am most fertile then started getting really annoyed and stressed.

I am 25 he is 35 we have been married for a year and together for 5 years previously.

I am not in a major rush for babies but he just needs to stop changing his bloody mind every few minutes!