Is this wrong?

Question

Would it be wrong to continue to date someone for fun even though you don't see them in your future? We've been dating for over 1 year. & I'm realizing that the future won't work with him. I'm 18 so Is it bad to stay with him?

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Idk a year is a long time, do you guys say you love each other?

I would be honest with the guy and tell him that you don't see anything long term with him.

I had an open relationship pretty much for 3 months because that's all I wanted was to just have fun and have sex. When things simmered out there were no hurt feelings or anything. But if you are already in a serious relationship and you are now realizing you don't want anything long term I'd tell the guy and not keep dragging him around.

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It's wrong if he doesn't know this is how you feel and he feels otherwise. Don't waste his time or lead him on - that would be wrong. But if you're both (truly) on the same page and want to keep things fun and casual and in the moment, then I don't see a problem.

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You're both young. I say it's fine. You'll know when it's time to part ways and look for something serious.

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If you don't see yourself having a future with them, why continue in, is how I see it. It's a ways of time and emotion.

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You are young.   Right now if fun is what you want keep having fun.  Of either of y'all decide you want more than just fun it's time to reevaluate the relationship.

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That's unfair to him.

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Why waste your and his time when there's no future

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Just tell the guy that's how you feel

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If who you're dating is on the same page with you then cool just have fun. But if you haven't told them then you are just playing with their feelings and that's messed up. If someone dates you "just for fun" and you genuinely loved them you would feel hurt, right?

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As long as he is on board. It would be awful to continue if he was investing himself thinking it would lead somewhere.

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