Literally Moving On

My family and I might be moving to Nebraska due to my grandparents' declining health. I've always wanted to move where they live because I've been in love with the area since I was a little girl. Problem is, I have an ex who I still have feelings for. We didn't end on bad terms and he broke up with me due to family drama going on in his life that he didn't want to bring me into. I know that if by some miracle he came back, we could always do long distance, but I feel really uneasy about being 22 hours away. On the other hand, if we never get back together, I feel like I'll always be in this never ending mindset of "What could have been..." and the thought of that really scares me. Any advice?