Have you ever.....?

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Have you ever given your SO head while he was asleep ? I'm super horny rn and I've been thinking about trying it for weeks but I don't know how to go about it! I'm so nervous because isn't it super soft ? Lol obviously if I'm trying to take off his pants he's gonna know and ahh just idk. Help!!!!

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I know it's your hubby and all, but I still feel like this is like rape. If he's asleep he's not consenting. If it was a man going down on a woman and she asked how people felt everyone would scream rape. Men can be raped too. Yes, he's your hubby, but I would arouse him (awaken him) before you arouse him. Ask him at some point "hey, if I'm horny and your asleep do you think you would mind if I..." Hubby tries this from time to time with me, and sometimes I go with it because it turns me on, other times it irritates me and I tell him to stop. He does stop, which is appropriate. He kept going once a little, until I freaked on him and told him I SAID NO. He quit trying to continue after that. But just to be safe have the convo first.

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My husband LOVES when I wake him up like that. Sometimes he will sleep completely naked if it's something he really wants that day. I'm pretty sure men don't mind it at all!

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He will just wake up and follow along with what ur doing.. I'm sure he will love it.. Mine does 😉

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My bf tells me not to just incase he pees in my mouth 😂😂

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Yes but only because he has explicitly told me many times it's okay for me to do! I wouldn't do it if I had never spoken to him about it before. Our deal is that we're both allowed to try t wake the other with sexual acts but if the sleeping one doesn't seem into it we stop, because we've had this open conversation about it and both love doing it/having it done to us we don't consider it rape or any kind of issue. When we first started dating I had to make it clear to him that he couldn't do that though, I had been raped in a previous relationship and I wasn't comfortable being woken up with sex at all. I didn't even tell him about the abuse, just that I want comfortable and he understood. This was many years ago and it wasn't until I was able to fully accept/process/deal with my abuse that I could enjoy sex and a lot of types of intimacy. I'm good now and like I said we have open convos all the time about our sex life and he knows sometimes I have boundaries and sometimes I don't, we just always make sure there is open communication. It's important.

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U can give him a hand job till it gets more stiff and then give him head. Giys love that.

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I can always tell when he wants me to because he'll sleep naked. He doesn't usually sleep naked because our dog sleeps in our bed. So if he's nude, it's a hint lol

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Lol my husband loves it when I wake him up like that!

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I would love to wake my boyfriend up with a bj but I'm not sure how he would react..... 🤔

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It'll get hard after a lil bit lol

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