What would you do??

Carrie • I had my first daughter at the age of 18, and now I am pregnant with my second at the age of 28!
How do you handle talking to your kids about dressing themselves? I.E. They want to wear something that isn't appropriate for the weather, or a shirt and pants that clash, etc? I am torn, because on one hand I want my daughter to feel free to express herself however she wants to, and on the other hand I feel like I have the responsibility to pass on these unwritten "fashion laws" we have as a society so she'll avoid....idk...judgment I guess. But is that a good enough reason to stifle her creativity and expression? I always end up biting my tongue and letting her wear whatever, clashing or not, but it's hard to 😅 I'm curious to hear how other mother's handle this!