I'm currently 17 weeks pregnant! I had a previous miscarriage so I didn't want to get too excited early on. But now I am getting excited. First I wanted to make social media announcement  this week and my husband told me that maybe I shouldn't because you never know. But he said it was my decision and I took his feeling into consideration, so I didn't post anything. Second thing: I'm suppose to find out the gender on June 10. So I wanted to do something simple like a bbq the next day. That was our plan and he was okay with that. But now he tells me maybe we shouldn't due to the risk of the Zika virus. I know he is doing this to protect and I appreciate it but I feel like I can't enjoy the fact that we are pregnant. This our rainbow and first baby for both. Am I overreacting?