relationship argument

Yaya • Love yourself! Love others that love you back! Live the life you’ve always wanted to live

my SO and I have been dating almost two years now. I'm 23 he's 26.

we recently got in an argument about my "irresponsible nature and my priorities aren't in line, along with excuses"

he's saying I'm not giving him enough support in this time when he's looking for a job.

he does acknowledge that I do give him words of encouragement.

he kept saying "sorry.. I seriously didn't mean to. something just set me off this all has been building up for weeks and months" he also said to me that I need to "women up and behave more" (I've had a post on here before about how to acting my age)and told me that our relationship future is in question.. saying if he left me that "I guarantee that your ass would be in the same spot"

here's a little more detail if needed more ill provide.... anything is appreciated ladies.

thank you all