I think I'm still in shock, but my husband has been going through all the grief stages, and is a wreck. I don't know how to support him. He knows I'm hurting, but he doesn't seem to understand that I need to grieve internally as well as on the outside. I feel as though he's upset with me for not being as emotional as him, but he hasn't seen me at home having my meltdowns. I want to be strong for him, but I also need to have my own moments.