Is it just me??

Question

OK so my boyfriend is very much a gamer. Most of the time when he plays on his games while he's on the phone with me, he'll talk to his friends online. Like straight up voice call shit. It makes me so damn upset and I feel ignored because he's supposed to be talking to ME when he's on the phone with ME. It gets on my nerves so much. Is it just me that feels like this??

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Yeah i definitely feel you on this. There's time where me & my boyfriend were hanging out & he sat talking on his xbox with his friends for an hour or two. I got really annoyed & pissed off. Like that's rude asf. Like why am i here???

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I find it a bit sly he doesn't come off to talk to you, I make time for my gaming and my friends on Skype and then I'll ring my boyfriend after so I'm talking to him alone. Idk why your boyfriend can't do the same

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****UPDATE****
So I gave him an ultimatum. When his friends come online and he wants to talk to them, he can either (A) tell them he's on the phone with me and doesn't want to be disrespectful to me or (B) he can hang up on me until he's done talking to them. He took the deal and he feels bad about making me so upset. I didn't want to make him feel bad, but if that's what it takes to make him realize that some things hurt me more than others I'll do it.

Is it just me??

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