So usually my bf is the one to start things and teases me for what feels like forever. He usually gets an erection easily. But last time, no matter how he touched me (he usually gets hard by playing with my boobs), he couldn't get it up. So instead of him being ontop of me, I flipped him on his back and got ontop of him. Just that alone was a turn on for him. Soon after a little teasing, he was hard as a rock. So ladies, if you or your partner have issues getting turned on, try spicing it up-even if it's something as little as what I did.