Vaginal or Csection

So I've been thinking about having a c section for this pregnancy. I had a vaginal birth with my son 10 years ago and it wasn't the most pleasant experience. He was 9lb 3oz and really messed me up down there. The amount of stitches I had was insane and the healing was bad. I already have stress incontinence when I sneeze cough or laugh to hard. My OB said it's up to me but I'm unsure.

Has anyone had a vaginal birth then csection and what's your thoughts