Serious HELP NEEDED!!! How do I get him to come see me...

Please I need help! I really like this guy but I don't know what to do! Read the story first then help me get him to come see me! The story goes like this.... I met a guy on a cruise that I went on recently and we got along soooo well. We would hang out everyday and talk for hours, we had so much in common aswell. We would both talk about how comfortable we felt around each other. We would have very hot make out sessions and he also slept over on the last two nights of the cruise. I was mind blown as I had never had such a deep connection with a person so fast! We both felt like this could go somewhere in the future. But the twist to this story, we live in different states. Even though we both live in different states we both wanted to see each other after the cruise. Fast forward to after the cruise. We would text everyday, we would tease and flirt and we also talked on the phone a few times. Everything was going great until the flirtiness stopped and I felt like he wasn't feeling me anymore. Then he stopped messaging me completely. I don't know what to do anymore, I really want to see him but I don't know how to start talking to him again without him feeling like I am acting needy. My question is: how do I talk to him about flying interstate to see me that seems flirty and will make him swoon?! And how do I re-initiate the texting and phone calls in a flirty and sexy way so I can ask him about  coming to see me?! Thankyou in advance for your help!! xx