How would you tell someone that they are doing too much? I know a girl who recently found out she is expecting. She is 9 weeks pregnant. This is her rainbow baby btw. But today, she is moving furniture by herself and refusing to let anyone help because she says pregnancy doesn't make a person handicap (her words not mine). I told her she should take it easy and be Ms. INDEPENDENT another day but she fussed at me. She really is doing too much and there are too many people trying to help

Edit for update: the girl just called to say she is spotting now....