Post miscarriage. This is my second cycle, so really the first time we tried. This is the hardest part. I'm about 3 to 4 days from af, so now every little twinge makes me think I'm going to be pregnant when I test in a few days. I'm setting myself up for some major disappointment. How do I keep myself from getting my hopes up? 2 days ago I decided that this month didn't seem right and so it was unlikely to work out. Now I'm in this spot where I'm convincing myself that I am pregnant. I'm going to be in trouble.